Reconciling Ministries Annual Conference · Worship Service
Wonderfully Made,
Courageously Loved
An order of worship honoring the sacred dignity
of transgender and nonbinary people
As You Arrive
Prelude
Draw the Circle Wide
Words: Gordon Light · Music: Mark A. Miller · © 2008 Abingdon Press
Refrain
Draw the circle wide, draw it wider still. Let this be our song: no one stands alone. Standing side by side — draw the circle wide.Verse 1
God the still-point of the circle, round you all creation turns. Nothing lost but held forever in God’s gracious arms.Refrain
Draw the circle wide, draw it wider still. Let this be our song: no one stands alone. Standing side by side — draw the circle wide.Verse 2
Let our hearts touch far horizons, so encompass great and small. Let our loving know no borders, faithful to God’s call.Refrain
Draw the circle wide, draw it wider still. Let this be our song: no one stands alone. Standing side by side — draw the circle wide.Verse 3
Let the dreams we dream be larger than we’ve ever dreamed before. Let the dream of Christ be in us, open every door.Refrain
Draw the circle wide, draw it wider still. Let this be our song: no one stands alone. Standing side by side — draw the circle wide.Opening
Welcome
Rev. Kelly Dotson
Music
Gathering Music
For Everyone Born
Words: Shirley Erena Murray · Music: Lori True · © Hope Publishing / GBGMusik
Verse 1
For everyone born, a place at the table, for everyone born, clean water and bread, a shelter, a space, a safe place for growing, for everyone born, a star overhead.Refrain
And God will delight when we are creators of justice and joy, compassion and peace: yes, God will delight when we are creators of justice, justice and joy!Verse 2
For woman and man, a place at the table, revising the roles, deciding the share, with wisdom and grace, dividing the power, for woman and man, a system that’s fair.Refrain
And God will delight when we are creators of justice and joy, compassion and peace: yes, God will delight when we are creators of justice, justice and joy!Verse 3
For young and for old, a place at the table, a voice to be heard, a part in the song, the hands of a child in hands that are wrinkled, for young and for old, the right to belong.Refrain
And God will delight when we are creators of justice and joy, compassion and peace: yes, God will delight when we are creators of justice, justice and joy!Verse 4
For gay and for straight, a place at the table, a covenant shared, a welcoming space, a rainbow of race and gender and color, for gay and for straight, the chalice of grace.Refrain
And God will delight when we are creators of justice and joy, compassion and peace: yes, God will delight when we are creators of justice, justice and joy!Responsive
Call to Worship
Rev. Beth Hall
Prayer
Opening Prayer
Rev. Stephen Walker
Holy Creator,
You knit each of us together in love. Before the world told us who we were allowed to be, you already called us beloved.
Forgive the church when fear has silenced compassion. Forgive us when we have drawn lines you never drew.
Today we lift up our transgender and nonbinary siblings. Protect those who are targeted. Strengthen those who are weary. Surround them with communities of courage and care.
Transform your church into a place where every identity is honored and every person is recognized as sacred.
Amen.
Memorial
Remembrance of Helen Ryde
Rev. Kelly Dotson · Candle Lighting
Friends, we pause to remember Helen Ryde. We gather carrying both conviction and grief. Helen’s life and leadership helped shape this movement toward justice, inclusion, and sacred belonging.
As we remember them, we recall how they showed us how to live: with courage to have difficult conversations, with a commitment to education and growth, with a deep belief in intersectionality and justice, with a willingness to meet people where they are, and with a spirit that listened—truly listened—with compassion.
The Word
Scripture Readings
Rev. Remy Styers
Message
What Is to Prevent Us?
Rev. Kelly Dotson
Stories of Faith
Testimony
Beck Saunders and Lauren Scruggs
Music
Response Song
Plowshare Prayer
Words & Music: Spencer LaJoye · © 2022 Spencer LaJoye
Chorus
I pray that I’m heard. And I pray that this works.Chorus
I pray that I’m heard. And I pray that this works.Closing Amens
Amen on behalf of the last and the least, on behalf of the anxious, depressed and unseen. Amen for the queers and their closeted peers, amen for the bullied who hold in their tears. Amen for the ones who want life to be over— may goodness and grace be your constant reminder that you are beloved, you are seen, you belong.Prayer
Prayer of the People
Rev. Lauren Scruggs
God of compassion,
We pray for transgender and nonbinary people everywhere. Strengthen them. Protect them. Surround them with communities of courage.
Make us a church that reflects your love.
Amen.
Responsive
Commissioning
Rev. Kelly Dotson
LeaderDo you commit to creating churches of belonging?
PeopleWith God’s help, we will.
LeaderDo you commit to protecting those whose dignity is under attack?
PeopleWith God’s help, we will.
LeaderDo you commit to listening, learning, and acting with courage?
PeopleWith God’s help, we will.
Music
Sending Song
The Goodness of God
Brian Johnson, Jenn Johnson, Jason Ingram, Ed Cash, Ben Fielding · © 2018 Bethel Music Publishing / Essential Music Publishing
Verse 1
I love You Lord, for Your mercy never fails me. All my days I’ve been held in Your hands. From the moment that I wake up until I lay my head, oh I will sing of the goodness of God.Chorus
‘Cause all my life You have been faithful, and all my life You have been so, so good. With every breath that I am able, oh I will sing of the goodness of God.Verse 2
I love Your voice, You have led me through the fire. In darkest nights You are close like no other. I’ve known You as a Father, I’ve known You as a Friend, and I have lived in the goodness of God.Chorus
‘Cause all my life You have been faithful, and all my life You have been so, so good. With every breath that I am able, oh I will sing of the goodness of God.Bridge
Your goodness is running after, it’s running after me. Your goodness is running after, it’s running after me. With my life laid down, I’m surrendered now, I give You everything. Your goodness is running after, it’s running after me.Chorus
‘Cause all my life You have been faithful, and all my life You have been so, so good. With every breath that I am able, oh I will sing of the goodness of God.Sending
Benediction
Brittany Bethel
Go into the world remembering:
You are fearfully and wonderfully made.
Every person you meet bears the image of God.
Go in courage. Go in love.
Amen